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I just found this article, that tells us why is it hard to forgive. I hope this'll do good ^^ Enjoy ^^ Why is it so Hard to Forgive? by Lynette J. Hoy, NCC, LCPC Human behavior suggests that people are "hard-wired" to retaliate when they have been hurt by another person.  Our pride or self-esteem is injured. Our expectations or dreams are disappointed.  We lose something very valuable to us.  We want recompense for the damages. But there are other resistances which block our motivation to forgive.  Automatic thoughts or beliefs impede us from forgiving others.  We tell ourselves, "I won't forgive because he/she never accepts responsibi

Today i found myself helpless, It seem that what i believe all along was wrong. I often encounters things that make me think this way. Yesterday, when i was talking to my friend, she told me that she had never seen the Human-Side of me. And i looked back at the past, and found my lonely and insecure self back then. Am i even a "Human" back then? I see my insecure, lonely, angry self. Just a Kid that crave for attention, and acknowledgment. I want people to worship me, to love me, and i want them to pass my so called "Test of Faith" when the pass the test, it means that they are ONE STEP CLOSER to make me believe that they truly,

i just got back from bali, had a great time there. yay ^^ i did something that i thought i couldn't have done.. but yeah.. we're humans, we are armed with hopes, courage, determination, love. and so it came to me that, there's nothing too far, too great, too hard, too anything for us human.